Posts tagged Intimate relationship
I’m caught up in a serious predicament and I don’t know how to stop or get myself out of it. Since I broke up with my ex, I’ve remained single, not dating or any of the “perks” that come along with dating. The problems arose when I ran into my ex at a coffee shop we both frequented and enjoyed together. I really wasn’t expecting to see him there since he moved to another part of town after we split. That initial jolt and shock of seeing him brought back a slew of emotions. We separated amicably, so we sat down drinking our coffee and caught up on life. Of course one thing led to another and next thing you know we’re back at my place (our old place) having sex. This has reoccurred several times, 8 to be exact, over the past 3 months and every time we say that it’s not going to happen again, but it does. We also know we broke up in the first place for legitimate reasons and we’re not going to get back together, but we’re still having sex. How do I stop this and break apart for good?
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 ½ years and although we’ve spoken about marriage, she doesn’t really seem to want to get married. Both of us have parents that have been divorced, friends that have been divorced, and marriage just doesn’t seem that important anymore. I on the other hand seek to be married, but my girlfriend is content with us simply living together. She doesn’t see how being married would be any different or what it would change. Should I continue like this or forgo the relationship and the woman I love?
Jumping In Place