Posts tagged Provide
I recently came across an article that read, “When a man gets ready to settle down and become a provider, he doesn’t look for a strong, independent woman, but rather a woman who will allow him to provide for her.” Do you think this is true and do men feel like they are in competition with a woman if she has a successful career?
We Want to Know
Greetings We Want to Know! What a great topic and question. It seems to be an ongoing discussion on how men perceive women in power or those with high paying positions and whether or not men can realistically handle not being the bread winner or having an “inferior” career title. Let me say this first and foremost. Although women’s rights and empowerment have come a long way and we find women serving in multiple areas as CEOs, heading multi-billion corporations, high-ranking government offices, and at the forefront of major organizations, any man would and should be proud to be linked with, associated with, and/or married to such a woman.
There is a huge misconception that men marry down and women marry up. That is an ideal that at one point in time may have had some merit, but has long since been dismissed. In today’s society, both men and women are looking for equal partners (in most cases) and even if they are not equal from the onset, they at least recognize the potential to grow and build together. Most women are seeking a man who is established or at least has a goal in mind and working towards that goal, has an idea of where life his going and where he would like to be in the near future, shows stability, and is open to sharing his world. Women need and want a man to be provider and protector and assure their safety and security. Most men are looking for a woman who knows who she is and is confident in that, who is willing to lend a hand and support, who is independent enough to hold her own, yet trusting enough to allow her man to lead, and is willing an able to forge a partnership for the betterment of the couple. If anyone, either male or female, tells you they are looking for a doormat or someone who will be subservient, run as quickly as possible!