#AskBrotherword - Patience Running Thin

Dear BrotherWord,

I’ve been actively pursuing this lady for almost 4 months now.  I think she possesses a lot of what I’m looking for in a woman and a future, but our schedules have yet to align.  The only time we speak, which is mainly by text, is only when I reach out and every time I ask why we haven’t gone out or spent time, she says she’s busy.  I can read in between the lines and take subtle hints so I plainly asked her if she wasn’t interested because I don’t want to waste her time or mine.  She was adamant that wasn’t the case and it’s not that she isn’t interested, but her schedule and life are crazy and hectic right now and she doesn’t want to start anything she can’t put her all in.  Although I can respect the honesty, I’m really wondering if it was a polite way of saying, go away.  What should I do? 

Sincerely, 

Patience Running Thin

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